Anxiety and insomnia: how to deal with both when each one feeds the other

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If you are dealing with anxiety and insomnia together, the most useful approach is to work on both sides at once: change the sleeping habits that keep insomnia going, use anxiety self-help during the day, and see your GP if broken sleep has gone on for months or is affecting your daily life. That is the shape of the NHS guidance, and it matters because the two problems are not really separate. The NHS lists stress and anxiety among the most common causes of insomnia, and lists not being able to sleep among the mental symptoms of anxiety. Each one is on the other's charge sheet.

This page is about the combination: what insomnia actually is, how to tell whether anxiety is driving yours, and what dealing with both looks like in practice. If what you mainly want is a picture of how anxiety around sleep shows up, the fuller guide to sleep anxiety symptoms sits alongside this one. Everything here is drawn from NHS guidance, and none of it is a diagnostic tool. If it sounds like you and it is affecting your life, your GP is the right next step.

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What insomnia actually is

Insomnia is not one terrible night, or even a rough week around something stressful. The NHS describes it as regularly having problems sleeping, and its list of what that looks like will be familiar if you have landed on this page: finding it hard to go to sleep, waking up several times during the night, lying awake, waking early and not being able to get back to sleep, and still feeling tired after waking up. The daytime half of the picture counts too, feeling tired and irritable during the day and finding it hard to concentrate because of it.

The NHS draws one useful line: insomnia lasting less than three months is called short-term insomnia, and insomnia that lasts three months or longer is called long-term insomnia. You do not need to hit the long-term mark before doing something about it, but the distinction is a helpful check on catastrophising. A fortnight of bad sleep around a stressful patch is miserable and worth acting on, and it is also not yet the entrenched pattern your 3am brain may be telling you it is.

Is my insomnia caused by anxiety?

Quite possibly, because the NHS lists stress, anxiety and depression among the most common causes of insomnia, but this is not something to settle by self-diagnosis, and other causes, from caffeine and alcohol to other health conditions, can be in the mix at the same time. What you can do is notice the pattern honestly and take it to your GP if it persists.

The reason anxiety and insomnia get tangled is that the loop runs in both directions. Anxiety keeps the mind busy and the body on alert at exactly the moment you need both to stand down, and the NHS includes not being able to sleep among anxiety's mental symptoms. Then the insomnia does its own damage the next day. Tiredness, irritability and poor concentration are on the NHS's list of insomnia symptoms, and a tired, frayed version of you has less capacity for the worries that started the whole thing. By the second or third bad week, many people are also anxious about sleep itself, watching the clock and dreading bedtime, which the hub guide on sleep anxiety symptoms covers in detail.

None of this means you are stuck with it. It means neither half of the problem can be safely ignored while you work on the other.

How do I deal with anxiety and insomnia together?

Work both sides at once: follow the NHS sleep-habit guidance to loosen insomnia's grip, use anxiety self-help in the daytime rather than leaving everything to be fought out at 2am, and get qualified help if weeks of it are affecting your life. The encouraging part of the NHS position is that insomnia usually gets better by changing your sleeping habits, which is a more hopeful sentence than most people expect at 3am.

On the sleep side, the NHS advice centres on habits: going to bed only when sleepy, getting up at the same time every day, winding down for at least an hour before bed, keeping the bedroom dark and quiet, and cutting the things that work against you, including alcohol, tea and coffee in the six hours before bed, late screens and daytime naps. Our guide on how to sleep with anxiety walks through the whole routine, including what to do in the middle of the night itself, so it is not repeated here.

On the anxiety side, the NHS suggests talking about your feelings to someone you trust, regular exercise, calming breathing exercises, and, pointedly, trying not to use alcohol to take the edge off, since it can contribute to poor mental health as well as fragmenting sleep. If the anxious thoughts are loudest at night, anxiety at night covers that particular ambush.

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When to see your GP

The NHS is specific about when insomnia stops being a self-help job. See a GP if changing your sleeping habits has not helped, if you have had trouble sleeping for months, or if your insomnia is affecting your daily life in a way that makes it hard for you to cope. For the anxiety half, the NHS threshold is similar: see a GP if you are struggling to cope, or if the things you are trying yourself are not helping.

A GP will try to find out what is causing your insomnia so you get the right treatment. The NHS says you may be offered cognitive behavioural therapy, either face-to-face with a therapist or through an online self-help programme, which helps you change the thoughts and behaviours that keep you from sleeping. If there are signs of another sleep disorder, such as sleep apnoea, you may be referred to a sleep clinic. Questions about medication belong in that GP conversation rather than on a webpage. Wobble's Clinical Lead is James Penney, an NCPS Accredited Psychotherapeutic Counsellor, and the consistent view across UK guidance is the same: for a persistent pattern, qualified support beats another month of white-knuckling it.

In England you can also refer yourself directly to an NHS talking therapies service without going through your GP, using the service finder on the NHS website, though waits vary widely. If you are in Scotland, Wales or Northern Ireland, your GP can point you to the local route. A BACP, UKCP, BABCP, BPS or NCS-registered therapist can help privately, and BACP (bacp.co.uk) and Counselling Directory (counselling-directory.org.uk) let you filter for experience with anxiety and sleep.

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Quick summary

Anxiety and insomnia feed each other, so deal with them together rather than waiting for one to fix the other. Insomnia means regularly having problems sleeping, not one bad night, and the NHS lists stress and anxiety among its most common causes. Work the sleep habits the NHS describes, use daytime anxiety self-help, and hold the line on the amplifiers like alcohol and caffeine. If changing your habits has not helped, the sleeplessness has run on for months, or it is affecting your daily life, see your GP, who may offer cognitive behavioural therapy. In England you can also self-refer to NHS talking therapies. You do not have to sort this alone.

For the practical night-by-night techniques, see how to sleep with anxiety. For how anxiety around sleep shows up, see sleep anxiety symptoms.

Sources and further reading

• NHS: Insomnia (nhs.uk/conditions/insomnia)
• NHS: Anxiety, fear and panic (nhs.uk)
• NHS talking therapies services (England): nhs.uk
• BACP: bacp.co.uk
• Counselling Directory: counselling-directory.org.uk
• Samaritans: 116 123 (samaritans.org)
• Shout: text 85258 (giveusashout.org)

This article is for information only and does not replace advice from a qualified medical professional. If sleep problems or anxiety are affecting your daily life, please speak to your GP or contact NHS 111. If you are in crisis, please call 999 or go to A&E.