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Depression at work: what helps when getting through the day is the job

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By Jack Murphy

Founder, Wobble

Jack lived with mental health struggles for over a decade before finally reaching out for support. He founded Wobble to make that first step easier for people who, like he was, are not ready to commit to traditional therapy. Jack is not a clinician; all techniques and guidance in this article come from NHS, NICE, and BACP sources.

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If you are dealing with depression at work, the most useful things you can do are to stop trying to hide it from everyone, speak to your GP, and use the routes that already exist for time off and support, because depression is a health condition and the workplace rules treat it as one. None of that requires you to be at breaking point first. The NHS is clear that you should see a GP if you have symptoms of depression for most of the day, every day, for more than two weeks, and "still technically functioning at work" does not disqualify you.

This piece covers what depression at work can look like, your options for time off, the question of telling people, and what actually helps, drawn from NHS, NICE, GOV.UK and Mind guidance. It is not a diagnostic tool, and if any of it sounds like you, a GP is the right person to talk it through with. For the wider picture on the condition itself, the guide to low mood and depression sits alongside this one, and because time off and going back are often part of the story, how a phased return to work actually works covers the return end of the journey.


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What depression at work can look like

Depression does not always look like staying in bed. At work it often looks like turning up and running on empty. The NHS lists symptoms including continuous low mood, feeling hopeless, low self-esteem, irritability, having no motivation or interest in things, finding it difficult to make decisions, lack of energy and disturbed sleep. Read that list against a working day and the picture is familiar: tasks that used to take an hour taking three, snapping at colleagues you like, staring at an email you cannot start, dreading meetings you would once have led, and getting home too drained to do anything except worry about tomorrow.

The NHS also notes that depression can come on gradually, and that many people try to cope without realising they are unwell. Work is often where that plays out longest, because a job gives you a script to follow even when everything underneath has gone grey. Following the script is not the same as being well, and the fact that you are still managing to follow it does not mean this does not count.

It is worth separating this from its neighbours. If the problem is pressure and volume rather than a persistent flatness, the feeling overwhelmed at work guide is closer to what you need. Depression is its own thing: the NHS describes symptoms that persist for weeks or months and are bad enough to interfere with your work, social life and family life.

Can I take time off work for depression?

Yes, in exactly the same way as any other illness. GOV.UK's sick leave guidance says employees can take time off work if they are ill, and for the first seven days in a row, including weekends, you do not need any note at all, you simply self-certify to your employer. Beyond seven days you need a fit note, which your GP or another healthcare professional can issue after a conversation about how your health is affecting your ability to work.

Mental health is not a second-class reason here. The fit note will say either that you are not fit for work or that you may be fit for work with support, such as different hours or tasks, and if your employer cannot agree those changes, GOV.UK says you must be treated as not fit for work. The practical walkthrough of that conversation lives in how to get signed off work with stress, and the process is the same whatever the label, stress, anxiety or depression. If you are still at the stage of deciding whether to go off at all, stress leave from work is written for exactly that fork in the road.

Time off is not automatically the answer, and for some people the structure of work is part of what holds the week together. Mind notes that many people find working good for their mental health, through income, identity, contact with others and a steady routine. The point is that the option is real, ordinary and yours to use, not a last resort you have to earn.


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Should I tell anyone at work?

Telling someone at work is your choice, there is no rule that you must, and Mind recognises that deciding whether to tell your employer is itself one of the hard parts of managing a mental health problem at work. What is worth knowing is that you are not as unprotected as the worst-case scenario in your head suggests.

Your employer has a duty of care to you under health and safety legislation whether or not you have a mental health problem, which Mind's workplace guidance sets out plainly. And under the Equality Act 2010, Mind explains that a mental health problem can count as a disability if it has a substantial effect on your normal day-to-day activities and is long term, which brings protection from discrimination and, per GOV.UK, a duty on employers to make reasonable adjustments, such as shorter hours or changed duties.

None of that decides the question for you. I would only offer this: the people who care about you at work have probably noticed something anyway, and one honest conversation, with a manager, HR, or just a colleague you trust, tends to be lighter than months of performing. If a full disclosure feels too big, you can start smaller, with "I'm having a rough time with my health at the moment" and no more detail than you want to give.

What actually treats depression

Depression is treatable, and the menu is wider than most people think. NICE's guideline on depression in adults (NG222) sets out a range of options to be chosen with you rather than for you, including guided self-help, cognitive behavioural therapy, behavioural activation, counselling, interpersonal therapy and group exercise programmes designed for people with depression, alongside medication for some people, which is a conversation for your GP rather than an article.

Getting to that menu is more straightforward than it once was. In England, the NHS says you can refer yourself to NHS Talking Therapies for depression without going through a GP, though waits vary widely, and in Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland the GP route is the standard one. Privately, a therapist registered with a PSA-accredited professional body can be found through BACP or Counselling Directory.

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When it is urgent

See your GP if low mood or the symptoms above have been there most of the day, every day, for more than two weeks, or sooner if they are affecting your ability to function. If you are having thoughts of harming yourself or ending your life, that is urgent whatever else is true: call NHS 111 and select the mental health option, contact Samaritans on 116 123 or text Shout on 85258, and if you are in immediate danger call 999 or go to A&E. Work can wait. This cannot.


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Quick summary

Depression at work often looks like turning up and running on empty, and still functioning does not mean it does not count. You can take time off for depression in exactly the same way as any physical illness, self-certifying for the first seven days and asking your GP for a fit note beyond that. Telling your employer is your choice, and both the employer's duty of care and the Equality Act offer more protection than the worst-case scenario suggests. Depression is treatable, with NHS Talking Therapies open to self-referral in England and a range of NICE-recommended options beyond it. See your GP if symptoms have been there most days for more than two weeks, and treat any thoughts of self-harm as urgent, today.

For the fuller picture on the condition, see low mood and depression. For the journey off and back, see how to get signed off work with stress and how a phased return to work actually works.


Sources and further reading

  • NHS: Depression in adults, symptoms (nhs.uk/mental-health)
  • NHS: Talking therapies (nhs.uk)
  • NICE: NG222, Depression in adults: treatment and management (nice.org.uk/guidance/ng222)
  • GOV.UK: Taking sick leave (gov.uk/taking-sick-leave)
  • GOV.UK: Reasonable adjustments for disabled workers (gov.uk)
  • Mind: How to be mentally healthy at work (mind.org.uk)
  • BACP: bacp.co.uk
  • Counselling Directory: counselling-directory.org.uk
  • Samaritans: 116 123 (samaritans.org)
  • Shout: text 85258 (giveusashout.org)

This article is for information only and does not replace advice from a qualified medical professional. If depression is affecting your daily life, please speak to your GP or contact NHS 111. If you are in crisis, please call 999 or go to A&E.

Frequently asked questions

  • Is depression a disability at work?

    It can be. Mind explains that under the Equality Act 2010 a mental health problem counts as a disability if it has a substantial effect on your normal day-to-day activities and is long term, meaning it has lasted or is likely to last twelve months or more. Where that applies, GOV.UK says employers must make reasonable adjustments, such as shorter hours or adapted duties.

    Source: Mind: How to be mentally healthy at work, GOV.UK: Reasonable adjustments for disabled workers

  • Do I have to tell my employer I have depression?

    No, telling your employer is your choice, and Mind recognises that deciding whether to tell them is one of the genuinely difficult parts of managing a mental health problem at work. Some workplace protections, like reasonable adjustments, are easier to access once your employer knows, so it is a trade-off worth thinking through, perhaps with your GP.

    Source: Mind: How to be mentally healthy at work

  • Does exercise really help with depression?

    NICE's guideline on depression in adults includes group exercise programmes designed for people with depression among its recommended treatment options, alongside talking therapies. It is one option on a menu to discuss with a professional rather than a substitute for other support.

    Source: NICE: NG222, Depression in adults

  • What if my job is what is making me depressed?

    Mind suggests trying to work out what at work is affecting your mental health, such as workplace stress, poor relations with colleagues or the type of work itself, and notes that your employer has a duty of care to you under health and safety legislation. Raising it with your manager or HR is a reasonable step, alongside speaking to your GP about how you are feeling.

    Source: Mind: How to be mentally healthy at work

  • Can I get therapy for depression without going through my GP?

    In England, yes. The NHS says you can refer yourself to NHS Talking Therapies for depression and anxiety without speaking to a GP, as long as you are registered with a GP practice. In Scotland, Wales and Northern Ireland the GP route is the standard way in.

    Source: NHS: Talking therapies

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